A lot of times when we hear people speak on the state of manhood in our society they never seem to have anything positive to say. We often hear the generalizations that “all men are dogs” or “guys never want a committed relationship” or “there are no good guys out there”. We know these statements aren’t true. There are plenty of great guys out there who are carrying their weight as men. They’re faithful, honest, provide time and money, and play active roles in the lives of their children, but are constantly overlooked because of the prevailing perception that men don’t do those things anymore. For the good guys being disregarded or bombarded with the constant negatives about men this can be discouraging. We’re here to tell you, “keep going”!
We don’t carry our weight just to seek worldly praise. We are simply living life as responsible human beings. It just so happens we are men and understand our roles as men. We lead, provide, protect, serve, grow, and cast visions for ourselves and others. The negative generalizations may seem a bit whimsical to you if you surround yourself with men fulfilling their duties just like yourself. The generalizations don’t fit your circle. It’s ok, let others have their say and continue to live life with the eyes blinded to the truth. The ones who matter the most don’t believe in the generalizations, they know the truth. They live in the reality of comfort, security and trust because you quietly handle your responsibilities. You don’t live your life based on the standard society has set for what a man should strive to be, for that is much too trivial for you. Your standards are to a higher bar.
Keep doing what you’re doing! Even when you feel like you’re the only one trying to go the right way, stand on the fact that even a few can change many and even the world. Whether it is brother to brother, father to son, uncle to nephew, or mentor to child, a simple example can change those who watch and inspire even more to change. To the men who do what is right regardless of the circumstances, regardless if they are appreciated or thanked, take comfort in knowing you’ve positively impacted the people you come across. Your motivation is not in worldly praise or accolades, but that of a much more intrinsic value. Stand up men, and continue to step on those weak generalizations of manhood, for they are proof the world needs you.